What are Women Looking for in a Man?
When you date a woman, you may often have these questions in your mind:
- Am I the man she is looking for?
- What qualities of a man she would like me to have?
- Is my physical appearance attractive enough?
If you do, then this article is for you. After reading it, you will know what women are looking for in a man.
- A man who can share his feelings.
Most women like a man who talks about what is going on inside his head and heart. They want a man who do not bottle things up or run away when times are tough. They think that it is good to share, and at least, let them know what you are going through, even if there is seemingly little they can do. While tears are completely appropriate on some occasions, most women want a man likely to be less emotional than they are. - A man who is honest.
Most women consider honesty as a very important quality she want in a man. Almost every single woman has been lied to by a man they loved. Before you assume that you are honest, take some time to think about if you have ever said that you would do something but you failed to do it. Women have learned to look for subtle inconsistencies during the first few dates. They think that by examining how you handle small things, they can anticipate whether you will be honest in big important issues. - A man who is emotionally healthy.
While women are not looking for men who have completely solved all their internal issues, they expect their men to be neuroses free. The most attractive men are confident men who are emotionally stable and at ease with themselves. - A man who is attractive.
Although most women think that physical appearance should not be the most important criterion for choosing a soul mate, they do agree that there must be some physical attraction in a man. If you compare the profile pictures from men and women, you will notice that most women seem to naturally take the time and effort to dress nicely, pick an attractive spot and send in pictures that are clear and flattering. However, men often send in pictures that are blurry, in strange positions (often sitting at their computers), with hair askew and bewildered expressions. With a digital camera and picture editing software, it is not difficult to create a good-looking picture. Women think that if you cannot do small thing well by creating a good picture of yourself, you cannot deal with a more important issue.
The above list of qualities is just a summary of things women are looking for in a man. The most important tip for relationship success is listening to what your partner has to say.