How to Overcome Rejection
If you suffer from being alone, then ANY practice is better than no practice. Go and speak with old Grandmas in trams. Any practice is better than none. If you go shopping then go to the female cashier instead of the male and say “Hello” to her. Ask 20 women in a row “Where is the next Coca Cola factory?” or “What time is it?“. Just random girls who pass by. After a little practice you can even start to say “Hello” to beautiful women on the street.
How can you survive a “turn-down” and a “failure of dating”?
Since a woman sitting alone in a bar is asked probably 10 times per night for a date she can (and will) turn you down easily (without further thought) while it may be very bitter FOR YOU.
Now there IS a strategy to work around this devastating experience: You should WANT to be rejected. This may sound strange but is one of the most effective strategies: Make it your goal to be turned down at least 10 times per night. Laugh at rejections. Treat them as sport (you can not always win, can you?).
You can even continue to keep this “goal to fail” during advanced stages of a dating (= when already talking, when going home with her, etc).
Let me make this clear for you: You WILL get rejected in about 90%-95% of the cases. But it’s not because of YOU it’s simply because how things work. After you are more experienced that figure may drop.
You could even “start a night” with the prettiest girls around. Get rejected. Try with less pretty girls. And so on.